Can we get it done if the Heat send their 2nd to me..?
No. Because the motives for the trade have already been made perfectly clear.
We ask that future considerations are not agreed to when they cannot be sent at the time of the original trade. Asking for ways to circumvent that agreement all GM's should have isn't exactly what we're looking for. We're hoping you abide by the rules set forth and don't try to circumvent that.
You're right, there's no way to prove every trade, so people will be able to circumvent it. That's why we ask for your consideration in not trying to do so so all GM's are on a level playing field.