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« Reply #15 on: September 15, 2005, 06:55:00 PM »

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I'm a busy fucking peson, like it or not.

Well I really really really hope you mean to be a "fucking busy person", otherwise ...

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« Reply #16 on: September 15, 2005, 08:53:40 PM »

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Hey Bods, congrats, you win the award for most ignorant comment ever.

You're the commish, so you have the right to tell me that I have nothing to complain about pertaining to how busy my life is?


You win the reward for not reading anything in my post.

I said that the time you spent complaining about the grizzlies took more time than it would have taken you to check if the trade worked.  

It was a comparison between what you did do (bitch) and what you should have done (checked) and had no relevance to how much time you have, because that time was spent one way or another.  I never made one comment about the amount of free time you have.

And it IS your responsibility.  If you don't like that, and can't act civil, leave.

I work 40 hours/week.  While being a full time student.  While running a small business.  I sleep about 4-5 hours/day, if I'm LUCKY.  When you guys waste my time by making me do extra work, I'm allowed to tell you to check trades.  It would have literally taken you 10 seconds to count to 15.
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« Reply #17 on: September 15, 2005, 09:35:53 PM »

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you've spent as much time bitching about the grizzlies not cutting a player right now as it would have taken you to count the 15 players on the grizzlies page 20 times.

shut up.  you have nothing to complain about.


There was no way for me to know that that statement was directed about my apparent "bitching" and not the fact that i was "complaining" about the fact that my university life is busy.

Now, I'd ask you to go back through all the trades that didn't oringinally work. There must be 100 by now? How many times have you called out the trading partner of the gy who had too many players? I'm gonna go with never. Why is it always me that you make an example out of? You had litterally at last 50 chances to talk about this before, to implement a rule that says both teams are responsible for each other.

And my "bitching" was 1 statement. In which I stated that this not going through would fuck over the BucksGM and I. Which was true.

Call this whining if you want, but I'm getting sick of the way I'm treated in this league. Shit happens, it's my fault. Something needs to change, I get used as an example.

I can already sense your response. It probably starts like "oh you poor baby...", but you know what? That's exactly what I'm talking about.

And it's your choice to work 40 hours a week, go to school, and run this sim. No one is forcing you to do it, it's your choice.
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« Reply #18 on: September 15, 2005, 09:41:24 PM »

Relax.  You made a mistake.  It's ok, everybody does on occasion.  It's not everybody agenda to come down hard on you.  

The deal went through, right?  What's all the fuss about?
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« Reply #19 on: September 15, 2005, 11:31:56 PM »

I don't pick on you.  I've posted people to use trade checkers/read the rules page dozens of times.  The reason things escalate with you is your reaction.  You'll never admit wrong until after you've blown up.

Look at my original post.  Wasn't mean spirited, wasn't even upset.  Just saying one of you two should have caught it

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It wouldn't have been too difficult for you to check his roster, see he has 15 players, then realize neither of you two posted about cutting a player. You both should check over rosters from both sides to make sure a trade works.


that's no different than things I've said 50x over in this league.  the only difference is the reaction.

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Working while going to school is not something I have a choice in.  This league is my escape.  It was brought up to show that you will not get sympathy from me about your schedule.  It is YOUR choice to be in this league as well.  If you can't make the time comittment to take 10 seconds to look over a roster, then you shouldn't be here.

But this was never really about the time.  I just opened up the rosters page and counted his roster, took me 13 seconds.  The 13 seconds did not cause this blowup.

All I did, when you complained about the trade not being able to go through, was told you to take some personal responsibility in your yourself for not double checking to make sure it could be done, that you were partly to blame as well.  And because of that you had no right to get upset.  Personal responsibility.  Then you completely go off on me,   Calling me ignorant, and that's not even including the part of the post I had to edit out.

And here I am defending myself again?

Personal responsibility.  Maybe they'll teach you that at college.

You want to leave?  Fine.  I'm not stopping you.  I have no right to have posts like this directed at me, and I will not tolerate it anymore.  Not for what I did.

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Hey Bods, congrats, you win the award for most ignorant comment ever.

You're the commish, so you have the right to tell me that I have nothing to complain about pertaining to how busy my life is?

I'm sorry, I must have missed the point where you knew who I am and what I do.

I'm a busy fucking peson, like it or not.
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« Reply #20 on: September 15, 2005, 11:41:19 PM »

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Relax.  You made a mistake.  It's ok, everybody does on occasion.  It's not everybody agenda to come down hard on you.  

The deal went through, right?  What's all the fuss about?


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« Reply #21 on: September 15, 2005, 11:41:45 PM »

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well said


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« Reply #22 on: September 16, 2005, 09:27:01 AM »

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I don't pick on you.  I've posted people to use trade checkers/read the rules page dozens of times.  The reason things escalate with you is your reaction.  You'll never admit wrong until after you've blown up.

Look at my original post.  Wasn't mean spirited, wasn't even upset.  Just saying one of you two should have caught it

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It wouldn't have been too difficult for you to check his roster, see he has 15 players, then realize neither of you two posted about cutting a player. You both should check over rosters from both sides to make sure a trade works.


that's no different than things I've said 50x over in this league.  the only difference is the reaction.

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And it's your choice to work 40 hours a week, go to school, and run this sim


Working while going to school is not something I have a choice in.  This league is my escape.  It was brought up to show that you will not get sympathy from me about your schedule.  It is YOUR choice to be in this league as well.  If you can't make the time comittment to take 10 seconds to look over a roster, then you shouldn't be here.

But this was never really about the time.  I just opened up the rosters page and counted his roster, took me 13 seconds.  The 13 seconds did not cause this blowup.

All I did, when you complained about the trade not being able to go through, was told you to take some personal responsibility in your yourself for not double checking to make sure it could be done, that you were partly to blame as well.  And because of that you had no right to get upset.  Personal responsibility.  Then you completely go off on me,   Calling me ignorant, and that's not even including the part of the post I had to edit out.

And here I am defending myself again?

Personal responsibility.  Maybe they'll teach you that at college.

You want to leave?  Fine.  I'm not stopping you.  I have no right to have posts like this directed at me, and I will not tolerate it anymore.  Not for what I did.

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Hey Bods, congrats, you win the award for most ignorant comment ever.

You're the commish, so you have the right to tell me that I have nothing to complain about pertaining to how busy my life is?

I'm sorry, I must have missed the point where you knew who I am and what I do.

I'm a busy fucking peson, like it or not.




And this is what I figured would happen, and this is stupid.


I. Already. Said. That. My. Post. About. You. Being. Ignorant. Was. Taken. Out. Of. Context.

I HONESTLY thought that you were saying that I had no right to complain about how busy I was in University life. That's where this "blow up" is coming from. It was a misunderstanding just like ever freaking argument we have is, and I'm getting sick of it.

It's all the same, someone says something, I defend myself, bam.

That's the problem with an internet message board, there is no tone or anything in the posts. I can't see your body language.

I never complained. All I said was this would fuck over me and the Bucks. I would have. We spent 2 weeks getting this trade done.

IMO, your job as a commish should be to make people want t be in your league. You're not doing that for me. You're making me want to quit. Why the post about me having Rasho in my DC,  Rolling Eyes ? I can't sense tone usually, but I can sense the sarcasm in that post. I confused Rasho for Wright in the few seconds I had to alter my DC. I'm going to be making a whole lot more simple mistakes like that as I have a wole lot less time. It happens, and it's no big deal.
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« Reply #23 on: September 16, 2005, 10:39:56 AM »

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It was a misunderstanding just like ever freaking argument we have is, and I'm getting sick of it.

It's all the same, someone says something, I defend myself, bam.

That's the problem with an internet message board, there is no tone or anything in the posts. I can't see your body language.


And there you've hit the nail on the head.  Yet time and time again you lose your cool.  You're getting sick of it?  You're not the one who was attacked for something he didn't say.  Maybe you should think a little bit before you go off the deep end next time.

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IMO, your job as a commish should be to make people want t be in your league


No, that's not my job.  If that's your expectation of my job, you're going to be deeply disappointed.  I'm here to run the sim the best I can.  To keep everything organized, moving, done so in a manner that everyone knows how to do their jobs, and to do so honestly.  I'm not here to baby sit and hold hands.  I will not sit here and allow people to call me ignorant just so you enjoy your stay here a little more.

Here we are again back on personal responsibility.  Take some responsibility for you calling me ignorant rather than expecting me to simply move on from and ignore a situation that arises here monthly.  Do not expect me to sit here and repeatedly allow such kinds of comments to be made without me having a say in it.
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« Reply #24 on: September 16, 2005, 10:43:44 AM »

I called you igonrant for a statement I thought you have made, and I'm sorry.

But you've done the same thing and took no personal responsiblity. (The Yao Ming race issue)

But hey, you know what, I retire from having any arguements here. I'm done, not doing ot anymore. People ca attack me or whatever, and I'm not going to retaliate. I just don't have the time to get inot discussions like this.

I'm done in this thread, and I'm done in any other thread that starts to become a pissing match.
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« Reply #25 on: September 16, 2005, 10:50:30 AM »

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And that's the thing.

NOBODY ATTACKED YOU.

All I said was "you could/should have checked his roster as well".  And even after the misunderstanding, you could have simply said "it was a misunderstanding, sorry".  But no, you went the woe is me rout, crying that I pick on you, that somehow I don't have the right to say you should have checked his roster as well.

When you realize the world isn't out to get you, you might be able to work cooperatively in that world.
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